Episode 36: Empowering Families for Successful Addiction Recovery with BALM Program

Episode 36 – Boundary Setting with Addicts

Families often struggle with where support ends and enabling begins. In this episode, we dive into the essential topic of boundary setting during addiction recovery — especially for those supporting a loved one. Our guests bring insight from the BALM® (Be A Loving Mirror) Program, which emphasizes the power of unconditional love paired with healthy detachment.

Addiction doesn’t just affect the individual. It impacts the entire family system. Learning how to set boundaries — without losing connection — can be life-changing for everyone involved.

In this conversation, we explore:

• How to set and hold clear, compassionate boundaries

• The difference between enabling and true support

• Common patterns of manipulation or guilt and how to respond

• Why families need recovery too — not just the addicted loved one

This episode offers practical tools and new perspectives for family members navigating the tension between love, accountability, and self-care.

For deeper insight, read our guest blog from Lisa, a certified BALM coach:
The BALM Approach to Family Recovery

Key Takeaways from Episode 36:

• Healthy boundaries protect both the person in recovery and the family

• Judging or rescuing creates distance — calm, clear communication builds trust

• Families often need their own support system and education

• “Loving well” sometimes means stepping back, not leaning in

FAQs

What is the BALM Program in addiction recovery?
BALM® stands for Be A Loving Mirror. It’s a family recovery model that helps loved ones communicate with compassion, detach from chaos, and support recovery without enabling.

How do I set boundaries with a loved one in addiction?
Start by identifying your own limits and needs. Boundaries should be clearly stated, consistent, and tied to your values — not threats or punishment.

Want to explore family-focused recovery support?

We offer Addiction Counseling, Family Consulting, and intensive recovery programs that integrate relationship dynamics and boundary work.

Contact us to learn how our team can help support both your healing and your loved one’s recovery journey.