What Is 'Healthy' Drinking—And Is It Even Real?
You’ve seen the headlines: "Red wine is good for your heart," or "Moderate drinking linked to longevity." You’ve probably also heard the counterpoints: "No amount of alcohol is safe," or "Alcohol is a carcinogen." So what’s the truth?
Is there such a thing as "healthy" drinking—or are we just really good at justifying something we want to be true?
Let’s untangle the science, the spin, and what this means for you.
Where the "Healthy Drinking" Narrative Came From
For years, studies touted the benefits of moderate alcohol use—especially red wine. The Mediterranean Diet got all the glory, and alcohol was often presented as a sophisticated, heart-healthy lifestyle choice.
But here's what many of those early studies didn’t tell you:
They lumped moderate drinkers into the same category as those who live generally healthy lifestyles (like eating well and exercising).
They often excluded former heavy drinkers or people with health conditions from the "non-drinker" group, skewing the data.
They were sometimes funded by—you guessed it—alcohol industry groups.
Newer, more comprehensive research (like the Global Burden of Disease Study) paints a different picture: even moderate drinking can increase the risk of cancer, heart disease, and cognitive decline.
In short: the health halo around alcohol is... foggy at best.
What Actually Counts as "Moderate" Anyway?
Not your version of “just a few” or what qualifies as a light pour in your favorite wine glass. And no, you’re not getting pulled over — this isn’t that kind of conversation. But if we’re going to talk about cutting back, it helps to know what moderation really is.
According to the CDC, moderate drinking means:
1 drink per day for women
2 drinks per day for men
Seems simple enough… until you realize what a standard drink actually is:
5 oz of wine (that’s about a half-pour in most home glasses)
12 oz of beer (basically one can)
1.5 oz of distilled spirits (a shot—not a generous bartender’s pour)
If you’ve ever poured 8 oz into your wine glass and called it one drink, you’re not alone — it’s a pretty common miscount.
But here’s the thing: these limits weren’t pulled out of thin air.
They’re based on public health data that estimates the level of alcohol intake least likely to cause harm across a general population. Lower risk — not zero risk. And they don’t take into account your emotional relationship with alcohol, your genetics, or your lived experience. So it begs the question...
Healthy for Who?
Even if “moderate drinking” is safe for some people on paper, it’s not safe — or helpful — for everyone.
For example, if you have:
A family history of addiction
Ongoing anxiety, depression, or trauma
High stress and poor sleep
A tendency to binge, even occasionally
Certain medications or health conditions
...then alcohol can quickly become more risk than reward.
So if you’ve ever wondered, “Can I keep drinking a little and still be healthy?” — maybe the better question is:
“Is alcohol supporting the kind of health I want?”
And if you’re not sure what the answer is, you’re not alone. That’s exactly why we created the Control or Quit? course.
A Sneak Peek from the Course 🎁
In our e-course, Control or Quit? Your Guide to Cutback or Cutoff Alcohol, we walk you through tools that our skilled therapists use — like self-assessments, reflection exercises, and craving breakers, to help you figure out what’s actually going on with your drinking.
Here’s a quick check-in pulled from one of our course discussions:
Is It Healthy Drinking… or Just a Habit?
Ask yourself:
Do I make rules around drinking (“only on weekends,” “just two tonight”) — and often break them?
Do I reach for alcohol to feel more relaxed, confident, or less anxious in social settings?
Do I drink to change the way I feel — to numb stress, boredom, or hard emotions?
If you answered “yes” to one or more, it might be time to take a closer look.
This doesn’t mean anything is “wrong” with you. It means you’re paying attention. And that awareness? That’s where change starts.
Want more guided support, habit trackers, and clarity-building answers? That’s what the course is for.
You Don’t Have to Label It to Question It
You don’t have to identify as an "alcoholic" to reconsider how alcohol fits into your life.
You don’t have to hit rock bottom to make a change.
You don’t have to explain or justify curiosity.
You just have to be honest about how it’s really working for you.
Our course offers practical tools, no-pressure reflection, and a clear path to help you decide: Should I cut back? Or is it time to quit?
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